Bobby Ryan, the local Olympian with an incredible past
Many of us likely know that Anaheim Ducks and US Olympic Team forward Bobby Ryan has a story with a local twist. The Cherry Hill, New Jersey native lived there until age 10, was a Philadelphia Flyers season ticket holder, and it's been written locally that his family has connections with Bob Clarke and the Flyers brass. In recent years even, while Ryan was playing with Owen Sound of the OHL prior to being drafted in 2005 just behind Sidney Crosby at second overall, he worked out with Flyers players over the summer.
But what many of us do not know are the troubled details of his early life. His birth name, in fact, isn't even Bobby Ryan; it's Robert Stevenson. He and his father changed their names when the elder Stevenson went on the lam in 1997.
Some of us knew the complete details of his story, but an article in Sunday's Star-Ledger chronicles the story of his childhood in great detail. From his life in Cherry Hill, to his abrupt '97 move to Canada and eventually Southern California, to how his battle-tested family still managed to make sure their son had the chance to cultivate his burgeoning hockey career, the article is an compelling read.
An excerpt...
He didn’t hear his dad — insurance company owner Robert Stevenson — storm into the family home in Cherry Hill, drunk, looking for his mother, Melody. Stevenson was sure his wife was taking drugs.
Their only child didn’t hear the screams and the panic. He didn’t see the bizarre chase down the street into a neighbor’s house. His father, an amateur boxer, ripped the door off the hinges and whaled away at the love of his life, causing her to bleed from her mouth and sending her to Cooper University Hospital in Camden for four days with four broken ribs, a fracture to her skull and a punctured lung.
Robert Stevenson was charged with attempted murder and five other felony counts. He tried to obtain a passport using the name of a dead baby before jumping bail. He fled to Canada and his wife, who had forgiven him, and his son later joined him.
Robert Stevenson and his son changed their names and lived under assumed identities and the family lived on the lam.
Today, the boy who protected his family’s dark and complicated secret for much of his life is a pivotal part of the U.S. Olympic hockey team that faces Canada.
The name on the back of his hockey jersey is different from the one he was born with, but Bobby Ryan realized he needed to tell the truth and no longer hides from it.
Take three minutes and read the entire article. You won't regret it.
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I have friends who have been Flyers season ticket holders for many many years. The Stevensons with Bobby used to sit a few rows behind them at the games. Then I guess all that stuff happened and they did not see them for years, but they saw at least the father (they never mentioned if Melody was there or not) at the game on October 10 when the Anaheim Ducks played the Flyers in Philly
Proudly supporting a Flyers team with "no honor".
What’s the countdown to him becoming a Flyer again?
TAKE THE FALL, ACT HURT, GET INDIGNANT
by CoburnsCuddleBuddy on Feb 22, 2010 7:59 PM EST reply actions
I proposed trading Carter, Emery and Coburn for Ryan and Giguere earlier in the year but no one is listening to me.
why would Anaheim take that package?
TAKE THE FALL, ACT HURT, GET INDIGNANT
by CoburnsCuddleBuddy on Feb 22, 2010 8:12 PM EST up reply actions
Well they needed to get Giguere off the books and Emery would have been a great back up for Hiller. Also their defense has been spotty all year so Coburn would have easily been a 4 or 5. And swapping a 46 goal scorer for a younger player on a team that believed it was closer to winning than rebuilding. The money works and we could use the winger instead of a center and lord knows Giguere would be great addition to this team.
This story is disgusting.
“Does he (Bobby) have scars? Probably,” the father says.
Gee, you think? What a scumbag. This story almost seems to glorify the father for what he did.
I agree to an extent, but there’s also something to be said for the fact that the family is still together.
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by Travis Hughes on Feb 22, 2010 9:54 PM EST up reply actions
Lots of women stay with their abusers—not saying that’s what Ryan’s father did here because we don’t know the full story and likely never will—but many times the women accept the fault as their own. No one ever deserves to be put in the hospital by one’s spouse. I agree that I thought the tone of this article seemed a little too accepting of what the father did for my tastes. Maybe I read it wrong, and the story is naturally compelling, but it struck a wrong note with me. I do, however, agree that it’s even more amazing that Ryan has achieved what he has, in spite of his background.
Ever read about Jon Dorenbos? His father killed his mother and the children were witness to it. Just awful.
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I noticed it as well and I don’t wanna sound like I was condoning the tone of the article, but as JpH said below as well, it was more about Ryan to me than his parents. His story is just awesome.
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by Travis Hughes on Feb 22, 2010 10:13 PM EST up reply actions
The story isn’t to show that what the dad did was ok, but to show what Bobby went through and how he still became a success story. The father may be scum, but this makes Bobby much more of a hero.
"NO HONOR"
This story should have simply been about Bobby then. There should have been no comment from his father. Make it about what the kid accomplished and that’s it. I don’t need to hear about how tough it’s been for the father to put his mistakes behind him. If they put that in, they should have included how difficult it was for his mother to battle through the broken ribs and fractured skull her ex boxer husband gave her. I’ve been through tough times with drugs and alcohol myself, and never, ever, ever did I ever come close to putting my hands on my girlfriend, despite our problems.
And while it’s true we don’t know the whole story and exactly what they went through, I don’t think I would ever be able to look at my father with even a trace of respect if he would have done something like that to my mother.
You act like Im standing up for the father, which im most certainly not. The story is just to say that the fathers decisions is what made Bobby who he is today. its shameful, but if the father doesn’t do the actions, Bobby may never have become a great hockey player. The story IMO, is really inspiring.
"NO HONOR"
No, I’m not attacking you or anyone else. I’m simply commenting on how the story was presented. However, I hardly think the father beating the crap out of his wife is what made him a great hockey player. It forced him to live a life on the run, with a fake name, looking over their shoulder. It probably robbed him of any semblence of a normal childhood, so no matter which way is it spun, his father hurt his child more than he helped him.
Right, but don’t ignore the fact that the story is also one of redemption. It was heinous what the father did and I’m not condoning his actions, but what does this say about Bobby and his mother and the family still being together. At some point, they forgave him for what he did and he’s still part of their lives.
It doesn’t make what he (his father) did right, but it certainly makes the story more inspiring to me anyway.
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by HockeyOutsiders on Feb 23, 2010 9:10 AM EST up reply actions
No, I’m not attacking you or anyone else. I’m simply commenting on how the story was presented. However, I hardly think the father beating the crap out of his wife is what made him a great hockey player. It forced him to live a life on the run, with a fake name, looking over their shoulder. It probably robbed him of any semblence of a normal childhood, so no matter which way is it spun, his father hurt his child more than he helped him.

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